anyhow my guy friends are keen to wanna marry me off. i dunno why. they say they want me to be happy. or they want to have real conversations about relationships with me [they're just praying i'll sleep with my boyfriend so they can get the lowdown on what women feel about sex].
fish says it's inappropriate for a girl to hang out alone with so many blokes. he's been harping on about it since i was 16. mainly because he thinks i might get big-headed. or because the guys wanna share their orgy fantasies with one another and they don't feel comfortable going into all the lurid details in front of me [thank goodness].
if you think you can trust your friends' judgement in boyfriend-selection, you're wrong. especially if your friends are a bit bizarre. here's what a typical 'min-get-a-boyfriend' conversation goes--
s: how how about W? he's rich.. u like money, right?'
m: he thinks too much. it's kinda scary.
s: it's good, you know.. then you won't have to think. he'll do all the worrying for you.
m: no, i can't fully trust him.
s: he'll never stray! he'll treat u like a princess!
s: k, then how about C?
s: he's wealthy too!
m: no he's not!
s: stop comparing people to yourself! the only person who can afford to take care of you is your father!
m: i'm not rich!
s: yeah, right. so how about him? he lives in a nice place.
m: i thought u were rooting for W!
s: well.. then how about A?
s: this one is really loaded..
i understand how family pressures girls my age into entering a relationship but the way sohfong was going? i can only laugh helplessly. he would be the last person i'd go to for boyfriend advice.