Tuesday, 22 January 2013

the one chancer

so i finally told my kl girlfriends about the break up.

and C trawled all my blog posts for the past 6 months looking for anything break up related.. then commented that she found nothing!

haha it's been 2 months now, and when i'm working i don't have the energy to get worked up.

but S quite liked my take on the excuse which is 'busy', as well as the One Chancer theory by Zoe Foster of Cosmo.

it's basically common sense. Zoe was asking a guy buddy why he treated his current girlfriend so fine when he had tortured all his previous lady friends.

the answer was, because she is a one-chancer.

he knew he only had one shot with her. if he messed it up, it's over. some girls give second or third chances, but not one-chancers.

and of course the dude has to be sufficiently crazy about the dudette to not blow his one chance. 

that was exactly what i was thinking when E blew me off after a fortnight of not seeing each other to help his cousin plan his wedding-- i understand that a wedding is a (hopefully) once-in-a-lifetime event, but then going out with me should be the same.

(if you can't even meet for 1 second in a fortnight, something is definitely wrong somewhere)

so if your guy ever uses the rare-opportunity excuse one too many times, remind yourself that you too should be a precious, once-in-a-lifetime event in his life.

共勉之

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